“What if I am tortured by my daughter-in-law” - Suicide note “如果我折磨我的女儿-在-法” -遗书
“If a woman is tortured, the first thing police do is arrest her in-laws, even though they are elderly. “如果一个女人是折磨，第一件要做的是，警方逮捕她，在法律，即使是老人。 What if I am tortured by my daughter-in-law?如果我折磨我的媳妇呢？ All 498A(a section that deals with physical and mental torture of women) does is put people like us behind bars, it will never put my daughter-in-law behind bars.所有498a （一节涉及的身体和精神折磨的妇女）是把人一样，我们背后的酒吧，它将从来没有向我的女儿-在法律背后的酒吧。
Police should look into this discrepancy and if need be change the law, for I am ending my life unable to bear the torture meted out to me by my daughter-in-law…”警方应考虑此差异，如果有需要修改法例，因为我结束我的生命无法承受酷刑在平时，以我的媳妇… … “
This suicide note was on Thursday from an Alipore (Kolkata, India) house where 64 year-old Ranjit Chakraborty hanged himself to death from from his bathroom shower.这遗书，是对周四从一alipore （加尔各答，印度）的房子里64年岁兰吉特查敏上吊自杀死亡，从从他的浴室淋浴。
Chakraborty, a retired employee of a multi-national company, worked hard till the day he died.查敏，一位退休的雇员多国公司，努力工作，直到有一天他真的死。
Police conducted a preliminary enquiry and slapped charges of abetting suicide against Chakraborty’s daughter-in-law Litu and his only son Partha.警方进行了初步询问和掌掴的收费教唆自杀对查敏的女儿-在法律litu和他的独生子partha 。 Both were arrested.都被拘捕。 The police action came not just on the basis of the suicide note, but also after an inquiry in the locality.警方的行动来不只是在此基础上的遗书，而且后一调查，在当地。
Police suspect Partha and Litu had their eyes on their parent’s property and were hence ill-treating their parents.警方怀疑partha和litu了他们眼中就其母公司的物业，所以病患者治疗他们的父母。
Source: Kolkata edition of The Times of India (couldn’t find it online yet)资料来源：加尔各答版印度时报（无法找到它，但在线）
I felt thoroughly horrified after reading this article.我觉得彻底震惊后，读此文章。 How much low can a woman sink for money?有多少可以低一女，沉为钱呢？ Where is the trust , the respect for the elderly?哪里是信任，尊重老人？ Such people make me sick to my core.这样的人使我生病到我的核心。
And yes the law is unfairly tilted towards women in India.是的法律是不公平的倾斜，对妇女在印度。 If any wife complains of torture by his husband or in-laws, immediately police arrests them, without even preliminary investigation or legal recourse.如果妻子有任何抱怨的酷刑，他的丈夫或在法律，警方立即逮捕他们，甚至没有初步的调查或法律追索权。 You are literally at the mercy of your daughter-in-law.你是从字面上来看，在怜悯你的媳妇。 And recently quite a few daughter-in-laws have decided to take advantage of the situation.最近也有不少的女儿-在法律已决定利用情况。
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November 9th, 2006 at 4:02 am 2006年11月9日在上午04时02分
During a chat on Indiatimes, Renuka Chaudhary gave some arguments in favour of DV and 498a.在一个聊天室就indiatimes ， renuka chaudhary了一些争论，赞成DV和498a 。 Here are my remarks on that:在这里我谨此陈辞：
Argument1: argument1 ：
A lot of them said “humko marvadi”, you’ve killed us, finished us.很多人说： “ humko marvadi ” ，你已经杀我们，我们完成了。
But a lot of women have emailed and written and said “you are our但很多妇女已通过电子邮件发送和书面，并说： “你是我们的
hero,supergirl Renuka” and all that.英雄， supergirl renuka “及一切。 But what was most wonderful was但什么是最精彩的是
that a lot of senior men and a lot of young people have come forward有很多高级男子和许多年轻的人站出来
and said “I’m so glad you brought it.并说“我很高兴你带来了它。 I wouldn’t accept it if my son我不会接受它，如果我的儿子
went around slapping a woman”.到处掌掴一名女子“ 。 So there is a beginning…因此，是一个开始…
remark: Has Renuka Chaudhary really asked about the mother or sister备注：已renuka chaudhary真的询问母亲或姊妹
of a victim?一个受害者？ Can they also hail Renuka Chaudhary as a HERO?可他们还冰雹renuka chaudhary作为一个英雄？ Being a作为一个
feminist hero,whether Renuka Chaudhary has concerns over Mental pain女权主义英雄，是否renuka chaudhary已关注的精神创伤
afflicted to such women?遭受这样的妇女？
Argument2: argument2 ：
I am quite amazed at the hypocrisy of our society.我很惊讶的虚伪我们的社会。 There is an adult有一成人
man and an adult woman.男子及一名成年妇女。 I have no role in that.我没有在这方面的作用。 By law they are由法律，他们是
consenting adults.同意的成年人。 So if voluntarily they are going to live因此，如果他们是自愿前往生活
together, does it mean that the man is entitled to beat her up or两者合计，这是否意味该名男子是有权殴打她，或
burn her or use her because he is not married to him?她的烧伤或使用她，因为他是没有结婚，他呢？
Remark:备注：
Well.A man is living with a woman. well.a人是生活在一起的一名女子。 The man pays some amount to the该名男子自付部分的金额向
woman.女人。 As being an adult the woman is free to live with other men作为一个成年人该名女子是免费的生活与其他男子
too.也。 They may be paying to her.他们可能因此付出她。 This is perfectly OK.Then who are这是完全ok.then谁是
prostitudes? prostitudes ？ Why are you putting them into jails, snatching their为什么你把他们变成监狱，抢掠他们的
earnings.收入。
Argument3: argument3 ：
If not eradicate, it will at least help set directions for men to如果没有消除，它将至少帮助设定的方向官兵
behave.的行为。 A lot of men don’t realise that what they do naturally is很多男人不知道他们的所作所为，自然是
actually not acceptable as societal norms.其实是不能接受的作为社会规范。 So we will be able to因此，我们将能够
give direction.给方向。 We have set up a framework and the children of the我们已成立了一个框架和儿童的
future will grow up in an environment where they see parents respect未来将成长起来的环境下，他们看到父母的尊重
each other.对方。 In any case, you didn’t need the law to do this.在任何情况下，你并不需要法律来做到这一点。 This is这是
part of the vows you took when you got married and you haven’t部分的誓言你毅然当您结了婚，你有没有
implemented that.实施。 So sometimes we have to step in to play teacher.因此，有时我们必须加强在发挥教师。
Remark:备注：
Respecting each other is not necessary as the wife can do anything.尊重对方做法并无必要，因为妻子可以做任何事情。
How efficient teacher Renuka is?如何有效率的教师renuka是什么？ If a teacher teaches with such a如果教师任教，与这样一个
law such a law, then why to teach men only?法这样的法律，那么，为何要教导男性只有？ Even if you take an即使你采取一
assumption that there is no physical abuse of men by women, no one假设是没有肉体上的虐待的男子，妇女，没有一
can be sure that there are no oher abuses like verbal and Emotional.可以肯定的是，有没有oher滥用一样，口头和情感。
Renuka should know about the women who compell their husband to keep renuka应该知道有关妇女谁迫使其丈夫保持
himself allof from their parents.自己allof从他们的父母。 Is it not an emotional abuse?这不是一个情感虐待？
Argument4: argument4 ：
How do you say 498 A is draconian?你怎么说， 498 1是恶法？ Is it draconian that women are它是恶法，妇女
burning?在燃烧？ That even pregnant women have not been spared?即使孕妇不能幸免？ That there有
is so much domestic violence that the whole psyche of an Indian这么多家庭暴力的说，整个的心灵印度
woman goes for a six?女子云为6呢？ The children grow up witnessing this and孩子们长大了目睹这和
believing it is right for them to beat up some other human being.相信这是正确的，他们击败了其他一些人。 It它
is not even so much as men and women as one human being to another.甚至没有这么多，因为男人和女人作为一个人到另一个。
It is completely inhuman to behave like that.Yes, some women have这是完全不人道的行为，像that.yes ，有些妇女
misused 498 A, but neither has that misuse been a deterrent for误用498一，但也没有说，滥用一直是阻吓作用
women being burnt.妇女被烧毁。 It has also not stopped the dowry demands.So if它也没有停止过嫁妆demands.so如果
some women somewhere do it, does that mean I don’t bring a law at有些妇女某处这样做，这是否意味我不把一个法律
all?所有？
Remark:备注：
Everything she confessed.一切她交待。 I don’t need to put a remark.我不需要提出一个说法。
Argument5: argument5 ：
Oh there are plenty, even advanced economies like USA have this.哦有很多，即使是先进的经济体系一样，美国有此。 We我们
looked at them but what was necessary was that we look at ourselves.看他们，但什么是必要的是，我们期待在我们自己。
India can’t copy anyone else because of the complexities — the印度不能照搬照抄别人，因为复杂-
multiple religions, hundreds of languages, the gap between the多种宗教，数以百计的语言，之间的差距
educated and the illiterate, superstitions — to bring a law to say受过教育的人和文盲，迷信-把一个法说
one size fits all is really quite complex.人人都适合一种尺寸，实在是相当复杂。
Remark:备注：
An unfalliable rule-No need to evolve a law from within overselve. 1 unfalliable规则没有必要形成一个法律从内部overselve 。
Look for advanced economies like USA and others.寻求先进的经济体系一样，美国和其他国家。 Take similar laws采取类似的法律
and remove every thing which talks of gender equality(in real sense)并删除每件会谈两性平等的（真正意义上）
and supports men.并支持男子。 This step is quite necessary for being a FEMINIST这一步是很有必要作为一个女权主义
HERO.英雄。 Renuka followedd it exactly and you see- she is a hero. renuka followedd ，这正是你看到她是一位英雄。
December 5th, 2006 at 4:17 am 2006年12月5日在上午04时17分
Sub : Stop abuse of 498A ( Dowry LAW) - See CNN-IBN News小组：停止滥用498a （嫁妆法） -看到有线电视新闻网-伊本新闻
Tortured hubbies, victims of 498(A) (1)- See CNN IBN hubbies折磨的受害者， 498 （一） （ 1 ） -看到有线电视新闻网的I bn
http://dvact.awardspace.com/index.php?module=articles&c=articles&b=1&a=105
http://www.ibnlive.com/news/tortured-hubbies-victims-of-498a/27446-3.html
Statistics suggest that Gokul and Sohail are just the tip of the统计数字显示， gokul和苏海尔马只是提示的
iceberg.冰山一角。
*In 2004, 58,319 dowry cases were registered *在2004年， 58319嫁妆案件登记
*1,34,757 men were arrested * 1,34,757男子被捕
*47,828 cases have reached the chargesheet stage *四万七千八百二十八案件已达到chargesheet阶段
*10,491dowry cases were not chargesheeted as they were based on * 10491dowry案件不chargesheeted ，因为他们的基础上
frivolous ground.无聊的地面。
*However, 5,739 men have been convicted but more than four *然而， 5739男子已被定罪，但四年多
times that number have been acquitted (24,127)倍，这一数字已被宣告无罪（ 24127 ）
The controversial section not only covers dowry, but a wide备受争议的部分，不仅涵盖了嫁妆，而是一个广泛的
spectrum of incidents including cruelty, causing injury and danger to mental or频谱的事件，包括虐待，造成伤害和危险的精神或
physical health.身体的健康。
It is this all consuming nature of the law that has legal这是所有消费性质的法律，具有法律
experts worried.专家担心。
Says advocate Dipesh Mehta, “In metro cities complaints like说，主张dipesh ，梅达， “在地铁的城市一样，投诉
this are usually filed by women with the intention to harass the husbands.这通常是由妇女与意向骚扰的丈夫。 I am我是
of the view that there should be some change in the provision of section委员会认为，应该有一些变化，在提供第
498A.” 498a “ 。
Respected Sir/Madam,尊敬的先生/女士，
We appreciate and understand your intention to wards improve the Indian Society .Few years back until We faced the reality with the situation and introduce the IPC498a ( Non bailable , non compoundable offence ) which is worse than TADA or POTA, we never consider the effect of the misuse of the same and how this will spoil the basic foundation of institution of marriage of Indian Society.我们对此表示赞赏和理解，你打算病房改善印度社会。几年回，直到我们面对现实，与有关情况，并介绍ipc498a （非保释，非compoundable罪行）这是不如tada或pota ，我们从来没有考虑的影响误用相同的，以及如何这将破坏基本的基础机构的婚姻印度社会。 Seating on fence one will feel the same situation.座位上的围栏一会觉得同样的情况。 With all our sincere respect to all of you, we request one of you to go the court, check with lawyer and judge.与所有我们真诚地尊重所有的你，我们的要求之一，你去法院，请与律师和法官。 They will tell the real stats and misuse of act and abuse to age old mothers, sisters (including pregnant), father and husbands.他们会告诉真正的统计和滥用行为和性虐待的年龄老母亲，姐妹（包括怀孕） ，父亲和丈夫。
Quote:引述如下：
Stop abuse of elders at the name of IPC Criminal LAWS.Stop blind arrests innocents, without any investigation停止虐待长者的名称， IPC的刑事laws.stop盲逮捕无辜的，没有任何调查
Stop encouraging single parenting and family breakup停止鼓励单身父母和家庭的解体
Strong Legal action against those who implicate innocents or catalyze this abuse.强烈的法律行动，这些谁牵连的无辜者或催化这种滥用。
All family disputes maters to be considered as Civil Matter case only as Criminal Case is not a Joke or order PIZZA.所有家庭纠纷maters被视为公务员的事情况下，只有作为刑事案件，不是一个笑话，或者订购比萨饼。